My Reaction to Trisha Paytas


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  • Kla W
    Kla W  1 weeks back

    Hey Harlow (: I can see that you’ve done a lot of work to educate yourself on issues that the trans community face and I can also see how conscientious you are in regards to respecting people’s feelings and identities. So I feel like if you’d said something in error that hurt anyone’s feelings or misspoke in regard to another topic you’d want to know right?
    I’m thinking yes, so I just wanted to let you know that “multiple personalities” is actually called Dissociative Identity Disorder and is not at all the same schizophrenia. The only reason I’m mentioning this is that I follow a few channels that seek to educate about DID and I’ve learned a lot about it -first thing is that the term Multiple personality disorder is no longer used in the DSM as it’s got a very ugly stigma attached. I know you didn’t use it first but I figured if you had a chance to pass on correct and compassionate info that’s what you’d want!!
    Anyway a couple of really great channels on the subject are DissociaDID and MultiplicityAndMe to start (:

    Otherwise I loved the video and your reaction couldn’t have summed mine up better😳😅🤨🤔😑🥴🤣🤣🤣

    • Stacey Hawk
      Stacey Hawk  1 weeks back

      Kla W I love both of those channels!!!

    • Kla W
      Kla W  1 weeks back

      And as part of the LGBT community, thank you so much for bringing awareness to how damaging things like this can be. It’s so important for people to hear these things from an ally perspective too🙌🤝💖

    • Kla W
      Kla W  1 weeks back

      No way, YOU are incredible! You remind me so much of my own daughter who isn’t too much younger than you. It makes me so hopeful to see how dialed into the plight, pain and experience of others your generation is, and while it’s complete chaos now, I honestly don’t believe that it will be that way forever and that’s because you guys are the ones that will be coming up to take the reins. No pressure though😅(but seriously-have faith in that-because it’s the truth)

      I just believe that when someone shows you that they are making every effort to come from a place of understanding and kindness that they deserve grace and the benefit of the doubt when they make a mistake that is clearly out of a lack of knowledge. And I hope that should my own daughter say something that would perhaps hurt or offend that another person would know it wasn’t her intention and offer her that same grace.) Not everyone is as gracious and accepting of that info as you’ve been here. So yeah, love- - THAT is incredible💖

    • Harlow
      Harlow   1 weeks back

      THANK YOU SO MUCH! I absolutely appreciate this and want to know anytime I misspeak or use a term incorrectly. You are completely correct and awareness about this is VERY important. Thank you thank you! I never want to spread stereotypes or incorrect information. I'm going to pin this comment- we all should raise our awareness about this! Also I really appreciate how you educated instead of spreading hate, you're incredible :)

  • JunJun Camacho
    JunJun Camacho  2 days back

    Good topic

    • Bull Shit
      Bull Shit  2 days back

      'A gay mayum'

      • Itzel Olivera
        Itzel Olivera  2 days back

        Girl me too I had the same reaction as you! Trisha obviously 🙄 doesn’t know what she’s talking about

        • Kaitlyn Harwood
          Kaitlyn Harwood  3 days back

          I love how you respectfully drag Trisha and I’m here for it

          • Transgender XOXOXOX
            Transgender XOXOXOX  3 days back

            She kept contradicting herself she’s very confused, she’s very ignorant and has mental issues but that’s WHOLE other story.

            • Cris O
              Cris O  6 days back

              Idk who Trisha paytas is and I’ve seen these videos after they blew up but I think Trisha can be or feel like whoever the she wants To be when she wants to be. It doesn’t affect anyone else but herself .

              • Carmen Le
                Carmen Le  7 days back

                First time viewer and u

                • Armando Armstrong
                  Armando Armstrong  7 days back

                  Be careful her fans are rabid and they will go after you if she tells them to. Look at what she did to Daniel E Carroll, he supported her for over five years since before she became big. then she accused him of stalking her and breaking into her house when she was getting backlash after she made a video supporting donald trump. Hes even said some of her fans drove by his house.

                  • Garance Mirgaine
                    Garance Mirgaine  7 days back

                    Why wouldn't you let het be what she feels she is? I'm confused. If she feels genderfluid and feels like she's a man let her be

                    • Mr. Pickles
                      Mr. Pickles  1 weeks back

                      Harlow is dumb.

                      • Ashley Poe
                        Ashley Poe  1 weeks back

                        She is in love 😻 with her gay male best friend and that’s why she is trying to identify as a “gay man” so she can find a way to be with him she has “borderline personality disorder “

                        • JessicaMarie Love
                          JessicaMarie Love  1 weeks back

                          Stop with all the pausing please, it's really annoying.

                          Updating real quick
                          I dont mean to sound rude in my comment sorry.

                          • diana malas
                            diana malas  1 weeks back

                            hey :) i'm actually a cis female just tryna get some more information and understand more about the lgbtq+ community. so i think that we can all understand that trish has misidentified herself as a "transgender gay man who identifies with her born gender", that seems clear to me, but the idea of her being genderqueer was tossed around in this video too which i found interesting. just based off of her ignorance in this video, do you (harlow or any genderqueer person in the comments) think that it's possible? in my eyes, she's solely basing her identification to the male gender on stereotypes, like having short hair and not being catty. is that how it works? because i would imagine that non-binary people go beyond thinking that the only way u can enjoy being glam and being assertive (which trish mentioned she had penis envy because she wants to be respected as assertive) is by being both genders. like i said, i don't know much about the transgender and genderqueer sides of the lgbtq+ community so any information helps :) hope i haven't said the wrong things and i hope i haven't hurt anyone, please educate me!

                            • callmecristal
                              callmecristal  1 weeks back

                              am i trolling for views?


                              • Masen S.
                                Masen S.  1 weeks back

                                Just one note: it’s not great to say a “they” or a “them”. I know you were using her language, but that’s like calling someone a “he/she”, which is a derogatory comment many trans folks, binary and non-binary, have heard

                                • Masen S.
                                  Masen S.  1 weeks back

                                  She put down non-binary trans people the hardest. She said it’s “easier” to be non-binary trans, than a binary trans guy 😂 She knows nothing. We, trans people who are non-binary, run in to obstacles in every facet of life. Our entire society is binary. In public, there’s rarely gender neutral bathrooms, we have to fight for medical transition (because so many cis doctors don’t understand that trans people can be binary or non-binary), and we’re not even legally recognized by our government (with the exception of a handful of states that allow n-b trans people to put the “X” gender marker on their ID). She also said “they” pronouns are “confusing” and somehow indicate multiple personalities? Singular they pronouns have been around since Shakespeare. Non-binary and binary trans people have existed through all of recorded history. Many of us also have bad social and physical dysphoria, just like many binary trans people, and lots of us seek HRT (hormone replacement therapy) and surgeries. Anatomy doesn’t determine gender, and gender is a spectrum just like orientation is! I fight every day to have my pronouns and chosen name used. This sh*t pissed me off more than I can even explain lol

                                  • MELANIE GRANT
                                    MELANIE GRANT  1 weeks back

                                    It's maddening that she monetized from such an uneducated, harmful, offensive video. I'm getting more and more irritated at her audacity. She's got balls, I'll give her that! Where's her self-respect? If this were a personal acquaintance would we allow this? Would we still hang with and support? Why are we still supporting her in this....hence, allowing her to make money from hurt and shock?

                                    • Charizze A
                                      Charizze A  1 weeks back

                                      I think that maybe she should consider bigender or gender fluid.... she could use she/he pronouns.

                                      • Kyah
                                        Kyah  1 weeks back

                                        She is straight up out here fetishizing gay men...

                                        • Oskar
                                          Oskar  1 weeks back

                                          4:04 sums it up
                                          "I'm a cis woman, but I'm also an FtM Gay Drag Queen"

                                          • Eos Forge
                                            Eos Forge  1 weeks back

                                            *Stares at a wall like I’m on the Office*

                                            okay, I’m an English major, and unless she was being sarcastic in one part of that sentence that makes... no fucking sense at all. In conclusion... what the fuck

                                        • Alekks Doll Workshop
                                          Alekks Doll Workshop  1 weeks back

                                          As a trans guy I'm grateful of the fact that even cis people can see how horrifically uneducated Trish is.

                                          • Chelsie
                                            Chelsie  1 weeks back

                                            She took r/notlikeothergirls to a whole other level

                                            • Meganlambex
                                              Meganlambex  1 weeks back

                                              Your so pretty ❤️

                                              • Lemonkatze
                                                Lemonkatze  1 weeks back

                                                Trish just wanna be special

                                                • Lemonkatze
                                                  Lemonkatze  1 weeks back

                                                  Trisha: im making something that people might find offensive
                                                  Also trisha: i didnt expect this much backlash

                                                  • heroisms
                                                    heroisms  1 weeks back

                                                    Her mom laughing at Trish’s statement made this video for me lol

                                                    • trifulquita15
                                                      trifulquita15  1 weeks back


                                                      • Kaitheguy
                                                        Kaitheguy  1 weeks back

                                                        As a trans guy I found it quite insulting to hear her saying that she should be an advocate for the trans community because she doesn’t wear makeup on her second channel and that she doesn’t associate with girls so therefore she is trans. It’s making us look ridiculous. I’m glad that you did a video to explain similar views to most trans people. Thank you

                                                        • Tricia
                                                          Tricia  1 weeks back

                                                          k..but then who are you to judge whether or not shes transgender or anything else she wants to identify as tho....

                                                          • B a B y D o L L
                                                            B a B y D o L L  1 weeks back

                                                            The whole situation is a mess, but i do think the people enjoying trashing her and mocking her are's sad, not a good ol time to enjoy trashing her.
                                                            Use this situation to push facts and information for the ignorant....not as an opportunity to get off on trashing someone and watching them crash and burn

                                                            • Tatyana Na
                                                              Tatyana Na  1 weeks back


                                                              • stev6963
                                                                stev6963  1 weeks back

                                                                Your video was great and as a gay man, makes me want to educate myself on the trans community because I’m pretty admittedly uneducated on it. But thank you for being an ally to us all! ☺️

                                                                • Sarah
                                                                  Sarah  1 weeks back

                                                                  Thank you, just thank you! The only positive thing that I obtained from her highly offensive and uneducated mess of a video that no doubt was a reckless representation as her life is that I found your video. I truly hope she spends time and watches your video amongst other research to realize she’s used her platform for nothing but attention whilst offending those she’s claiming to be apart of.

                                                                  • McKenna C
                                                                    McKenna C  1 weeks back

                                                                    We Stan one (1) woman.
                                                                    Her name is Harlow. 🙏🏻

                                                                    • bubbzbby
                                                                      bubbzbby  1 weeks back

                                                                      anyone see her video where she talks about dogs

                                                                      • SamSays hai
                                                                        SamSays hai  1 weeks back

                                                                        I’m really not trying to be mean but Trisha Paytas once made a video about how she doesn’t think dogs have brains because they can’t talk.

                                                                        She’s always been an idiot.

                                                                        • Darlene Evans
                                                                          Darlene Evans  1 weeks back

                                                                          She has been trolling so long, she no longer knows who she is anymore.

                                                                          • Nathan Bailey
                                                                            Nathan Bailey  1 weeks back

                                                                            I love your hair!

                                                                            • asspounderify
                                                                              asspounderify  1 weeks back

                                                                              Try 1 million % cisgender

                                                                              • Nathan Bailey
                                                                                Nathan Bailey  1 weeks back

                                                                                She’s an idiot.

                                                                                • Katz World
                                                                                  Katz World  1 weeks back

                                                                                  She should stop tryna strip and do porn on her twitter and worry about educating herself good lord. She said it Harlow she did she wouldn’t even say like tomboy I think she just tryna be relevant. First off all she is a girl so her loving makeup of course is nature she is so stupid get of the Internet

                                                                                  • Katz World
                                                                                    Katz World  1 weeks back

                                                                                    I was so early I saw the saved title first then it went on private now I’m seeing it 😂😂😂

                                                                                    • bumble
                                                                                      bumble  1 weeks back

                                                                                      genderqueer is still under the trans umbrella, so calling herself genderqueer would still be calling herself trans.

                                                                                      secondly, honestly a cis woman making a video response to something like this is a bad look. you come off like you want to share resources and inform people, but most of this video just seems like an excuse to make fun of her. identity is hard, whether or not trisha identifies as trans. and to be frank, when an issue like this comes up--an issue within the trans community--cis people need to sit down and listen. including you. gigi gorgeous did a great response, i encourage you to watch it. at the very least you'll learn to be more gracious and not speak for a community you aren't a part of.

                                                                                      • Zoe's Zoo
                                                                                        Zoe's Zoo  1 weeks back

                                                                                        Watching this to avoid giving Trisha the view

                                                                                        • Sasha Libanova
                                                                                          Sasha Libanova  1 weeks back

                                                                                          I loved your reaction and you’re so pretty omg! As a trans girl myself, Trisha offended the whole community and is just a troll who wants attention... she’s a transTrender*

                                                                                          • Fish Snyder
                                                                                            Fish Snyder  1 weeks back

                                                                                            "But I don't like they and them pronouns because they're very confusing." I'm sorry, but the whole video Trisha is confused. You can't say "sorry I don't understand this one thing and I'm not going to further educate myself on this topic because it's too confusing." This upset me the most. I am a transgender male in highschool and honestly it's not that hard to respect someones pronouns.

                                                                                            • Dante Cintolo
                                                                                              Dante Cintolo  1 weeks back

                                                                                              Dude, her entire reason for "transitioning" is the fact that she fetishizes gay men and transmen (but not masculine gay men or the normal, average transmen O F C O U R S E) and "not like other girls" ideology. Her doing that is really ignorant and pretty misogynistic. As a trans dude who likes guys, she is literally my worst nightmare.