How to Keep the Wrong Women out of Your Life | Dr. Shawn T. Smith PsyD | Full Speech

  • Published: 16 September 2019
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  • 21 Studios
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  • Mark Houghton
    Mark Houghton  11 hours back

    It's all very well talking about how to be careful with women. I've read the book and it's good. Problem for me as a 55 year old active fit man is that there are so very few women who are fit, not fat, active and not on medication for depression so whilst there may be a few decent women left finding them is such a chore that the juice is not worth the squeeze.

    • LuvJoyMuzik
      LuvJoyMuzik  17 hours back

      Big up @PapDry
      Act poor,
      Think rich,
      Gain wealth
      Happy health.

      • Landon Luke
        Landon Luke  20 hours back

        This guy's a fuckin' hero.

        • AK M
          AK M  1 days back

          This is a great speech, but essentially another NAWALT tutorial.

          • Austin Gilbert
            Austin Gilbert  1 days back

            Lol, I wonder if Antonio Brown has seen this video?

            • Sergio The Schout
              Sergio The Schout  2 days back

              Easy Go MGTOW monk no fuss, no worries and you do not need a PhD to figure that one out either.
              1) skewered judicial system that considers men guilty until proven innocent ( which is never going to happen) so the justice system is not just.
              2)Feminism made women so weak that they are akin to Horizontal Orientated Entertainers ( HOEs)
              3)#Metoo where basically any woman around you can point a finger at you and say "you sexually assaulted me". You will be in jail faster than you say feminist supremacy conspiracy.
              4)Decency, morals, loyalty, Ethics, etiquette, culture, etc women do not have. and you can thank the gov and society at large for that + feminism
              5) women are dishonest, backstabbing, screw like intellectually barren bimbos. They basically become a stereotype: a pair of breasts that has a hugh mungus ego and talks a lot of nonsense.

              At this point in time men should, if they have that need, pay for a high end escort... less the cost and less the headache. Just make sure you hidden cam film your escapades so you have proof in court that it was "consensual". Even with that evidence in hand the judge can decide to throw it out... funny that hm. Thus I come back to my first sentence: MGTOW monk mode is the only way now. Bridges are ALL blown up. So if women want men back and want men to cohabitate with them again things need to change and change drastically. How that needs to be done is easy but these women will never ever go for it even the ones talking about it. Talk is cheap it is the action that counts and so far all I see is hot air, people trying to sell men that are in the gutter and at their lowest point snakeoil bullcrap that will miraculously "save men" from all their hurt and "give the man that buys it all the riches and dreams he ever wanted". If it was that easy don't you think that there would be more happy people in the world that are married, have a bunch of kids, are kind to one another, not lust after something else, are content with what they are doing and currently having, etc?

              Now I probably will be shamed, blamed, namecalled etc yes you go right ahead, I will laugh my ass off. Let me cut right into some of the things the turd flinging monkeys will say:
              *A) you live in your mommas basement you broke ass incel* . ROFL.. sorry gotta laugh at this one. Nope.. I am one of those guys that is one of the worlds top 15% of the biggest salaries so.. try again. Then that about parents basement.. well .. My parents work for me (vineyard and insanely successful B&B)
              *B)you cant get laid and thus you are frustrated*. LOL I can have sex every single second of the day and STILL have a line of shallow women miles and miles long. They are all the same even they claim not to be ( see above, pt 4+5). However having meaningless sex with an never ending stream of hot 18 -25 year old women is shallow and not my speed. I also get a lot of propositions from women, which I all turn down.
              *C) You are a doll humper* HAHA too funny see point B for that response.
              *D) you horrible egotistical maniac! you never accomplished anything in your worthless life* Funny, see pt A and well I have been working in my grandfathers businesses since age 12. This gave me a lot of actual workable skills and a healthy work/save/life/recreational perspective and ethics/etiquette etc. I have created my own charity but a very unique one because there were ZERO % operational costs. For the mental midgets amongst the dirty smear merchants who uttered point D like response I will give you a crash course: ALL charities have operational costs ( except mine) usually , like the red cross/Oxfam etc have between 65-90% operational costs. This means that if you donate 1$ between 65-90cents will NOT GO to the place where it is needed but disappears in the pocket of the "charity". the remainder will go to the actual "cause" though that piece of the pie will be divided again many times ( the warlords need their cut as the corrupt police and the corrupt military and militias). Like I said My charity didn't have operational costs so that meant every dollar/euro/pound donated went completely toward the cause ( building aid stations, drilling waterwells, building schools and providing education. Travel expenses as well as our time invested was our contribution to the charity.

              I am not intimidated by some frustrated person because I have been threatened by militia and police thugs in Africa that pointed AK47's and pistols at me and my volunteers because we refused to pay the extortion money.

              Well seems I gave you a 5$ answer where a 2 cent one would have been suffice.. oh well enjoy the read :)

              • Sergio Naka
                Sergio Naka  2 days back

                You have no chance of having a relationship today... whit these current laws..

                • MGTOW Thread
                  MGTOW Thread  2 days back

                  oh well lets see how much money we can raise for Liberation Y. I am going to auction Marla. [email protected]@t

                  • Mish Cher
                    Mish Cher  2 days back

                    tell women you got no job, you will keep golddiggers out LOL

                    • Joseph Nardone
                      Joseph Nardone  2 days back

                      Interesting lecture. Don't agree with everything he says but that's normal.

                    • Ryan Best
                      Ryan Best  2 days back

                      Always trust your gut, it knows already what your head has not yet figured out... words to live by.

                      • evelyn contreras
                        evelyn contreras  2 days back

                        Guys just tell her that you have a financial problem and will need her help.
                        If she stays and help you, you won.
                        If she leaves you, you won.

                        • Navigating El
                          Navigating El  2 days back

                          Nice speech but he is flat delusional if he thinks psychologists are immune to feminism. A little beyond naive actually, quite blind, cause I'm sure it already has.

                          • LagiNaLangAko23
                            LagiNaLangAko23  3 days back

                            If the society ain't keeping them in check, every woman is the wrong woman.

                            • Randy Turner
                              Randy Turner  3 days back

                              Very great speech, certainly worth your while to spend the time to hear this video. Excellent

                              • Reinier van Herk
                                Reinier van Herk  3 days back

                                it's actually men who do it all wrong for themselves, because the world has changed. Take time to get to know a woman really well before you even consider sex or spending money on her. Save romantic feelings for later. If you choose to run behind your dick instead, don't blame others for the consequences.

                                • Daniel Goldberg
                                  Daniel Goldberg  3 days back

                                  "You're the prize, not them." This whole 1 hour video is worth it for that one statement. Act accordingly.

                                  • Peter K. Rosenthal
                                    Peter K. Rosenthal  3 days back

                                    I need a course on how to get the wrong women into my life because the wrong women are better than no women at this point. A number to a penis enlargement surgeon would go a long way, I think.

                                    • Fabian Brown
                                      Fabian Brown  3 days back

                                      24:25 👍

                                      • Fabian Brown
                                        Fabian Brown  3 days back

                                        I know a *family member* who fits this *monster woman* description 🤔🙁

                                        • Latisha Williams
                                          Latisha Williams  3 days back

                                          I am a woman and I am watching this to learn. I read the title and I listened to the content. He is not against women, he trying help men pick the right women. I agree women can be deceptive and wicked. I agree they should have protocols in place to be able to spot these type of women early on interacting with them. Some men in the comment section sound really bitter. Men have done me wrong but I decided to take accountability in the role I played in the toxic relationships I was in. Basically level up yourself and that will attract the right woman or man. I don’t have time to be crying about how men ain’t shit because that’s a false a narrative I tell myself. The truth is in this world we live with toxic humans. I think it needs to be about how to stop toxic people from entering our lives. How to be confident.

                                          • agnostic deity
                                            agnostic deity  4 days back

                                            "How to keep the wrong woman out of your life"... RECOMMENDED FOR YOU ?????

                                            What is the internet trying to tell me ??

                                            How much DOES the algorithm know ??

                                            Now to actually watch the vid and find out what this is all about ;-)

                                            • C Jennings
                                              C Jennings  4 days back

                                              Games. Games. Games good. Better. Best. Top qualities. Pursuit of friendship relationships first. Respect her dignity SELF-RESPECT. SELF-CONTROLed. The MALES ARE NOT THE PRIZE. LIER. She is the prize the CAKE. Good honest man is the FROSTING. Enhancing her WELL-BEING. To GOOD HAPPY PEOPLE make for HEALTHY Loving relationship. Fresh dopamine RUSH!!💗😆 high!!!

                                              • C Jennings
                                                C Jennings  4 days back

                                                Patience. Time. SELF-CONTROL. PATIENCE.

                                                • C Jennings
                                                  C Jennings  4 days back

                                                  Amygdala. Fear center intuition signals red flag. Fight or Flight power. All people have. To NOTE.

                                                  • C Jennings
                                                    C Jennings  4 days back

                                                    Freeloader man / 31yrs. Old. Looking for Free Room & board CARETAKERS GOOD HEARTED & puts UP with his lack of gratitude & or appreciation. He is insecure. Yet He Smart & CREATIVE & idealist.

                                                    • R.Joshua Collins
                                                      R.Joshua Collins  4 days back

                                                      Only Jesus saves! check out my you tube channel for more info!

                                                      • Archibald Tuttle
                                                        Archibald Tuttle  4 days back

                                                        As I sit here, I can see, nailed above the door, the pair of underwear she ‘returned’ to me after, “ You left these here”. 

                                                        They are washed clean. Thing is, the size is right, the color is right - but it is not my brand. 

                                                        It is not a trophy. 

                                                        They are hanging there to remind me not to go back or let her come back.

                                                        Nothing is as hard as moving on.

                                                        I disagree with, “You will find the right One.” 

                                                        That is like winning the lottery.

                                                        The numbers are NOT in your favor.

                                                        The future is uncertain, so that might change. I am in my sixties and in MY experience this is just the way women are these days.

                                                        • Archibald Tuttle
                                                          Archibald Tuttle  4 days back

                                                          Gentlemen, Dudes, listen to this man!

                                                          • Will To Power
                                                            Will To Power  4 days back

                                                            OMG, are the feminists marching yet? Men standing up for men, so refreshing and so needed!

                                                            • Dr Johnson Hungwell
                                                              Dr Johnson Hungwell  4 days back

                                                              There was a commercial on here with a simp singing about 10000 hours or the rest of my life .... LoL ironically he'll be singing a different song soon enough we the shit hits the fan LoL

                                                              • Dr Johnson Hungwell
                                                                Dr Johnson Hungwell  4 days back

                                                                I'm reluctant to even have a one night stand the risks aren't worth it , it's about like playing Russian roulette with 3 in the chamber .The shit can hit the fan really quick I've been there but luckily I didn't mess myself up , but I haven't cared much since then I don't get excited about women anymore.

                                                                • Dr Johnson Hungwell
                                                                  Dr Johnson Hungwell  4 days back

                                                                  Avoid 99.99.9% of them and keep the rest at arm's length.

                                                                  • Jim fallow
                                                                    Jim fallow  4 days back

                                                                    And so the West dies.

                                                                    • The Deadlytes
                                                                      The Deadlytes  4 days back

                                                                      Story of my life. Fuckin baby mama 🤦‍♂️

                                                                      • Donna Roberts
                                                                        Donna Roberts  4 days back

                                                                        Where's how to keep the wrong men put of your life

                                                                        • Donna Roberts
                                                                          Donna Roberts  1 days back

                                                                          Well I did not write this hum well crazier things have happened to me the devil working overtime I personally have nothing to say about me so sorry someone has used me somehow lol too funny

                                                                        • lion THE KING
                                                                          lion THE KING  1 days back

                                                                          Just start following feminists people and you'll find million of articles and videos saying all man are dogs, piggys ,etc

                                                                      • richard hice
                                                                        richard hice  4 days back

                                                                        What book would you recommend by Steven Pinker?

                                                                        • jennifer86010
                                                                          jennifer86010  4 days back

                                                                          Dr. Smith's theories apply equally to women who have invited the "wrong" man or men into their lives. Adults are not babies. They make choices and decisions on their own, and Smith's assumption is that men are fragile helpless babies, vulnerable to evil wicked designing women, bent on destroying men. Smith is victimizing men in this video, as much as he is vilifying women. 53% of marriages end in divorce, and most divorces are ugly. It's hard to find a compatible partner, probably because too many people today have very few

                                                                          remaining virtues. Thoughtfulness, caring, loyalty, generosity, honesty, decency...these are old fashioned virtues. Today's pop culture social media world glorifies selfishness, narcissism, materialism, deceit, and greed. Men say " it's almost impossible to find an "old fashioned" girl". Women say," all the good men are either taken or gay".

                                                                          Both men and women are to blame. They want superficial pretentious things in life which are not satisfying, and they expect their partner to be an idealized movie star version of a mate. Neither is realistic, because people want the idealized world they see on TV . But both men and women are to blame. Neither sex has a monopoly on virtue or evil. It takes two to tango.

                                                                        • Mr G
                                                                          Mr G  4 days back

                                                                          Dave met a narcassist with the machine mind reading.... Welcome to the new world order. A depopulation by the image of the beast...

                                                                          • Meme Gawd
                                                                            Meme Gawd  5 days back

                                                                            This video is exactly what I needed at the right time. I’m currently rebuilding my life because of a woman

                                                                            • Jeseppi Junior
                                                                              Jeseppi Junior  5 days back

                                                                              These tee shirts for sale are terrible, don't fight fire with fire

                                                                              • SportDiver 2
                                                                                SportDiver 2  5 days back

                                                                                66 butt hurt whores , twats and cunts disliked this awesome video

                                                                                • Krishna
                                                                                  Krishna  5 days back

                                                                                  This man has got a lot of experience

                                                                                  • Dog Shampoo Network
                                                                                    Dog Shampoo Network  5 days back

                                                                                    FART ALL THE DAY LONG!

                                                                                    • Don Don
                                                                                      Don Don  5 days back

                                                                                      Chase excellence not women & youll never be lonely

                                                                                      • Don Don
                                                                                        Don Don  5 days back

                                                                                        Never ever ever trust them......hell I dont trust my Mom Sister or Aunts...all about them & $$$$$$$$$

                                                                                        • Don Don
                                                                                          Don Don  5 days back

                                                                                          Sensei says "To Trust no one is to Trust everybody evenly"

                                                                                          • Don Don
                                                                                            Don Don  1 days back

                                                                                            FUCK people》》》YOLO